In Spite of the Fact That Man Has Conquered Reality to Great Degree By the Current Degree of Logical Advancement, Yet There Is Great Threat to His Reality. to Deal Effectively With His Social Relations, a Person Needs to Acquire the Social Skills That Enable Him to Deal With People Tactfully and With Understanding. In This Article We Study the Relationship of Self Confidence Anxiety of General Mental Ability With Actualisation and Non Actualization. In This Study We Focused In the Self Confidence, Anxiety, Actualization and Non Actualization, General Mental Ability and Confidence Anxiety With Actualization.